tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post3392184138254627165..comments2023-10-23T22:13:05.199+08:00Comments on Bitched, Bothered, Bewildered: SelflessEvan Owenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04331453203884188856noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-51511619223540179492009-02-01T00:30:00.000+08:002009-02-01T00:30:00.000+08:00There's no perfect match in this world. There's no...There's no perfect match in this world. There's no perfect couple either. It's all created by us, the silly human beings wishing and hoping that there is.<BR/><BR/>It's only by tolerance and lots of good communication between the two persons that a solid relationship will work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-39949352376841569872009-01-23T13:09:00.000+08:002009-01-23T13:09:00.000+08:00I know of his past experience... well, the recent ...I know of his past experience... well, the recent past only... seems like he repeats the same pattern over and over again...Evan Owenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04331453203884188856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-75967715457480958892009-01-23T09:38:00.000+08:002009-01-23T09:38:00.000+08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Sankaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02531925095993767866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-86909453793225199242009-01-23T09:36:00.000+08:002009-01-23T09:36:00.000+08:00raden, what happens after you learn about his pas...raden, what happens after you learn about his past experiences? Sometimes, learning of others past is rather... gruesome. It still doesn't change anything. Both have to want the same things, else, its going to be a struggle to work it out.<BR/><BR/>Too much compromise can be tiring and frustrating. You'd hurt each other without knowing it. <BR/><BR/>Identify what you can and cannot compromise before dwelling into a relationship. Identify the common grounds, which equally important.<BR/><BR/>Or pray, you'll find your soulmate.<BR/><BR/>Yes, this is based on my experience.Sankaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02531925095993767866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-46214482514191683612009-01-22T23:38:00.000+08:002009-01-22T23:38:00.000+08:00why dont u ask him bout his first love? was it mem...why dont u ask him bout his first love? was it memorable as the fights? was the make-up after the fights good?<BR/><BR/>what if that's what he learnt bout having boyfriends? that the process of getting 2 different ppl to agree is the idea of 'having a boyfriend'?<BR/><BR/>you're seen as the bestest friend, someone who'd be around thick or thin, which in a way is something else more valuable to him, but... sucks for u.raden putrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09197543709142947333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-8240066932321004782009-01-22T22:04:00.000+08:002009-01-22T22:04:00.000+08:00speaking from experience eh?speaking from experience eh?Evan Owenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04331453203884188856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3383104308366276571.post-89278334001227970422009-01-22T14:32:00.000+08:002009-01-22T14:32:00.000+08:00"its complicated".That's all i can say when it com..."its complicated".<BR/><BR/>That's all i can say when it comes to any relationship. Some works out. Some doesn't. You want that person, but he doesn't want you. What you give, sometimes you never get back. <BR/>I don't know. Drama happens without the any wish for it. <BR/><BR/>The problems... ahh.. who would want problems? But it happens nonetheless.<BR/><BR/>What you make of it i think is what makes the difference. Both of you must be willing to make something out of it...<BR/><BR/>hmm..Sankaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02531925095993767866noreply@blogger.com